So I got Merry's hair to gather up into some semblance of a 'do. Here I've sprayed her hair, parted it to the side and gathered what little I can into an elastic. That is THE ONLY way to get the bow to stay in on it's own. We had just snacked on some ice cream and this was the only time I thought to whip out my camera and grab a quick shot of her first official hairdo. She never knew the difference and didn't try to take out her bow once. I was so proud!